Have any of you wives found the same thing. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. She's really attractive, too. You and your fiancee might want to get in touch with one to work out the day-to-day issues of an interfaith marriage. He apologized up and down. He knows that is a possibility. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. The house has to be perfect and I am unable to do things the correct way.
I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. If your date has been an active member of the Church who is following these moral guidelines, then she will not be willing to involve herself in a sexual relationship with you. Anytime he is with me and "our" son he is on call, distracted or "needs" time to watch football and golf. But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. While you will be of the right age to date, the Church discourages you from trying to date someone while on your mission trip. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. Submit a new text post.
Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture.
I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations.